Amsterdam vs Paris for couples

Amsterdam, in the Netherlands, and Paris, in France, are about 431 km apart. Every figure below comes from the data behind our city pages: an estimated monthly cost for a couple, tax tier, annual climate, safety, healthcare, internet speed, language and residency rules. Amsterdam leads on safety and getting by in English; Paris on internet speed.

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Side by side

FactorAmsterdamParis
CountryNetherlandsFrance
SizeMid-sized: 250,000 to 1 million peopleLarge: 1 to 5 million people
SettingCoastalNear the coast
Est. cost for a couple€3,865 a month€3,993 a month
Tax tierHigh taxHigh tax
Average temperature11°C13°C
Rainfall907 mm a year659 mm a year
Safety72 / 10052 / 100
Healthcare80 / 10080 / 100
Internet (median fixed)~180 Mbps~230 Mbps
Main languagesDutch, EnglishFrench
EnglishEnglish everywhereSome English
Long-term residencyPossible, with conditionsPossible, with conditions
Self-funded income routeNone trackedFrom $1,720 a month
Visa-free short visits93 of 198 passports93 of 198 passports

Source: the datasets behind our city pages. Cost is our model estimate (a country-level cost index scaled for city size); tax tiers are assigned by hand from each country's top marginal income tax rate and overall tax reputation; temperature from the Open-Meteo archive (2019 to 2023 averages); rainfall from TerraClimate (1991 to 2020 normals); safety and healthcare are our own country-level estimates; internet from the Ookla Speedtest Global Index; English from the EF English Proficiency Index; residency from our hand-reviewed residency dataset (not legal advice); short-stay entry from the passport-index dataset.

Factor by factor

Cost of living

Close on cost: we estimate about €3,865 a month for a couple living centrally in Amsterdam and €3,993 in Paris.

Taxes

A tie: the Netherlands and France both sit in our high tax tier.

Climate

Paris is 2°C warmer on average over the year: 13°C against 11°C in Amsterdam. Paris is drier, with about 659 mm of rain a year against 907 mm in Amsterdam (27% less).

Safety

Amsterdam is the safer pick: the Netherlands scores 72 out of 100 on safety, 20 points above France (52).

Healthcare

Tied: the Netherlands and France both score 80 out of 100 on healthcare.

Internet

Paris has faster home internet: about 230 Mbps median fixed download against about 180 Mbps in Amsterdam.

Language

Main languages: Dutch, English in Amsterdam; French in Paris. English goes further in Amsterdam (English everywhere) than in Paris (some English).

Residency and visas

Both are rated possible, with conditions for long-term residency for people from outside the EU, EEA and Switzerland. France has a self-funded route from about $1,720 a month in income; we track no income-based route for the Netherlands. Citizens of the EU, EEA and Switzerland have freedom-of-movement or simplified residency rights in both. For short visits, 93 of 198 passports can enter the Netherlands visa-free and 93 can enter France.

Which one fits a couple

If one of you puts safety (72 against 52 out of 100) and getting by in English (English everywhere against some English) first, Amsterdam comes out ahead. If the other cares more about internet speed (230 Mbps against 180 Mbps), Paris does.

Climate can pull the two of you apart too: a partner who wants warmth leans toward Paris (13°C on average), while one who minds the heat leans toward Amsterdam (11°C), and whoever minds rain will prefer Paris (659 mm a year against 907 mm).

Size differs too: Amsterdam is a mid-sized city (250,000 to 1 million people) and Paris a large one (1 to 5 million people). Amsterdam is coastal; Paris is near the coast.

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